Day 7 - Love happens once - Myth or Reality ? ©

Why is it that people say Love happens only once in a life time ?

If this is the scenario, then make me understand why everyone falls in love again after a Break Up ? I do agree when we say, First love can never be forgotten.

Every time one break’s up, he/she gets depressed for a while, which depends on how deeply the couple was attached together. The routine changes. Depressive and Negative thoughts capture our mind, sleepless nights, crying all the time and what not.

Time passes when he/she finds that one person with whom they feel they are connected too. A normal conversation initiates which leads to understanding between them. Comfort Zone is more now, time is right, everything seems to be working out real good & one thought passed our minds, Should I get in a realtionship ? Bang !

You are in a Relationship again, Committed again. After the break up, thinking about a new relationship is NOT wrong, it’s practical and real. Entering in a new relation is never worng. It’s just a common mind set of the society which is impractical & unreal in the world now. The relationship is good until Love is their. Commitment again is wrong if one is using the other person only for his/her selfish motive.

True friends and people close to the couple knows the real thing. Need not to be justified or discussed with the world, hardly matters. Phrasing it better, Hardly the couple should care about what the society would manipulate and what how much that manipulated thoughts would be gossiped about. Just give them one thing …. “I Don’t Care” thing and everything would just calm down.

A relationship is hampered only when one concludes what they hear about themselves from either the Society or So Called Buddies. Everyone in life has to move on at a point. The best part one can do when they hear such things, just listen and don’t think about all this bullshit. Let it go !

There’s this process in everyone’s life. A process where in one person is known by the other person’s name in a small patch of time.

Strangers – Acquaintances – Friends – Close Friends – Best Friends – Special Friend – Relationship !

A few people see this everytime in their lives, like this is a looped process in their lives, for some it’s like it’s on n on n on untill he/she finds the correct person & for the luckiest people in the world, this is a One time process. I have met and known people who are engaged or married to their school time sweet heart’s. This is one “Awww” thing.

All one should do in a relation is, rather then finding the perfect one for you, make the relationship perfect for both. Nurture the relation, love to live happily ever after.

I have a doubt hea if any one can solve it, with a good reason …

Love happens once a Life Time – Myth or Reality ?

Day 6 - Truth ©

"To reach the sky, everybody needs 3 things.

1. Talent

2. Hardwork

3. Luck

We don't know how much luck supports us, so it's out.

Work keeping your talent in mind.

Hard work is the only thing which can help you reach the heights."

Today's world fears TRUTH. Gandhiji always said,  "I shall die, but not lie" , this words are inspiring and people do relate; agree to it at somepoint of life. A normal human being in today's world is at the stage where he/she is confused, whether he/she should speak the truth or not?  The world today is so much FAKE that it's hard to trust even your closed one's. The truth is, one fears speaking the truth coz' if he/she speaks it, he/she sees themselves in worse conditions, be it at the personal level or professional level.

Lying is not the way out all the time but yes, it works initially, but on a longer run, it fades. On the other end, speaking the truth gets one in a lot of trouble intially, but its states the fact and is understood on a longer run. Agreed, speaking the truth is difficult, but one should always try to speak the truth.

I have lied & faced the consequences and I have said the truth & have seen how beautiful life turns after the counter person understands it. 

I urge all those who are reading this to try and speak the TRUTH.

Day 5 - Hotness ©

A person can be called Hot only if he/she has a great body which shows their muscles or curves respectively? Is it all about the hard work you put in a day n all the sweat you collect in your gym wear ? Does hotness really mean exposing most of your skin ? Is it the about your attire ?

My opinion,

Hotness definitely does require a good toned body which would show your curves or muscles . Hotness is not about exposing most of the skin nor is it exactly about your attire. Personally, I have always felt , Hotness does not really mean the clothes you put on. Your attire can only make you feel, “Yes ! I’m HOT”.

Hotness is all about your Attitude, the way you Communicate, the Language, how you carry yourself. Hotness is all about your Personality.

A mini-skirt & a tight Tee would surely be categorized as a Hot attire, but only if  a girl can comfortably carry herself. If not, this hot attire would be termed ‘Slutty’ ! On the other hand, the same girl could look hot in a ‘Sarree ‘ or ‘Salwar-Kameez’ !

Hotness does imply the sense of wearing according to the occasion be it a wedding or a party or a normal gathering or even a movie with your friends !

You can always look HOT ! All you got to do is, change the way you see and feel things.

This is what I term as ‘HOTNESS’ 

Day 4: Moments ©

My Personal Favourite Click

Anxiety of a 14 year old Grandson to know more about the life of his 90 year old Grandmother. 

Moments of Love, Work, Family, Friends, Freedom Fights being heard and enjoyed.

Excited to know about the time she spent with Gandhi Ji; the work they did together to rule out The British. 

Amazed to learn about her association with Education for 45 years.

Sammit sharing his best 17 mins with Manju Ba

Day 3 - Love: The Solution ? ©

How amazing is the feeling when you have that one person except your family whose 'Good Morning' gives you the strength to face the day with a smile & 'Good Night' gives you the peace through out the sleep. Everyone around the globe wishes to have such a person in their lives. I am one of those billion hearts who hopes that one person who is around stays around all my life.

I have been wanting to know an adequate answer to this one question which pops in my head every single time when I am talking to myself. The question is, "Why is love the only solution to a problem?" My quest to find out the true answer behind this question is yet not over. 

I do believe that, love is a solution to most of the problems. Whenever I try hard to find an answer to it, I tend to recollect a short story which shouts out a noble message, "Wealth & Success follows Love." 

Problems & Failures are said to be the stepping stones to Success & Wealth. When you face these problems & failures you slowly start climbing the steps towards your goal. But there's a huge part of me that feels, fighting these problems & failures with love evolves the steps in an escalator which makes your path smoother & easier. It is easy to say theoretically that love is the only solution to most of the problems but when it comes to real and practical living, its a completely different story; though I believe, love solves most of the problems in real and practical living too. 

I certainly feel that today's world is going through the extremist phase of living which has over the years moulded ones life with various tensions and pressures. With each day passing, the tension and pressure of surviving in this world is growing at a level unmatched. Wealth, Success and Power are three solutions to ease off the pressure and tensions at the mental level. But the only solution to calm your soul is love. Love is a gift which can't be bought through money, love is a height which cannot be reached by success and love is a emotion which cannot be ignored by power.

Love is an eternal energy which is gifted to us by god. Love is an expression which makes your soul happy. Love is an internal force which leads your fight against any problem in life. Love is the only way to attain the only thing one truly aspires, "Inner Peace".

My quest to this adequate question is still on.  

Day 2 (i) - Bal Thackeray ©

Bal Thackeray

India looses a veteran marathi politician at age of 86. He started his career as a Cartoonist with 'The Free Press Journal'. His political agenda was to give more importance to Maharastrian's in the state rather than the emerging Gujarati's & South Indian's. 

The Founder & Chief of Shiv Sena went into Cardiac Arrest today at approx 3:30pm. The veteran politician has a million followers and is known to be an "Emperor of Hindu Hearts". 

The Controversial, Communal, Demagogue & the Only man who could bring Mumbai to a halt. Media fears speaking anything wrong against the chief even after his death. That's what I understand is POWER. The face of Maharashtra politics will change. His extravagant n unconventional style; his love for cigar & pipes still remains a classic. A true lion coz' he always preached what he believed was right & till his last breath he stood by his words & decisions.

Balasaheb Thackeray, Rest In Peace.

Day 2 - Chetan Bhagat

"I see guys spending weeks, months trying to make a girl happy. I see girls waiting endlessly for their guys to call. Is that all your life is about? For your lover to validate you? Or to make a relationship work? Instead, why not focus on yourself - working on your goals, learning something, being a more positive person and helping others. That will boost your self-esteem far more than any lover ever could. Next time that guy or girl treats you badly, say thank you. Say thank you for reminding me that I need to make myself the focus of my life, not you." - Chetan Bhagat

I received this message as a BBM broadcast a few minutes ago. I read this twice to connect it with my mind and to my surprise this is the bitter truth of the present generation. I include myself in this present generation too. Why is it that our lives revolve around attraction, love, relationships & getting noticed in whatever way possible? Life is not about doing work to get noticed. It's always about attaining inner peace, satisfaction and respect. 

I have a big social structure, be it family or friends. I have been living around all these things but never realized that all this is sheer waste of time if not balanced. Love & relationships are important too but making it the only importance is wrong. I now understand the practical meaning of these words after connecting it with real life. 

I do agree and believe that if we shift our focus to OURSELVES, life will be much more easier, fruitful and happy.