Why is it that people say Love happens only once in a life time ?
If this is the scenario, then make me understand why everyone falls in love again after a Break Up ? I do agree when we say, First love can never be forgotten.
Every time one break’s up, he/she gets depressed for a while, which depends on how deeply the couple was attached together. The routine changes. Depressive and Negative thoughts capture our mind, sleepless nights, crying all the time and what not.
Time passes when he/she finds that one person with whom they feel they are connected too. A normal conversation initiates which leads to understanding between them. Comfort Zone is more now, time is right, everything seems to be working out real good & one thought passed our minds, Should I get in a realtionship ? Bang !
You are in a Relationship again, Committed again. After the break up, thinking about a new relationship is NOT wrong, it’s practical and real. Entering in a new relation is never worng. It’s just a common mind set of the society which is impractical & unreal in the world now. The relationship is good until Love is their. Commitment again is wrong if one is using the other person only for his/her selfish motive.
True friends and people close to the couple knows the real thing. Need not to be justified or discussed with the world, hardly matters. Phrasing it better, Hardly the couple should care about what the society would manipulate and what how much that manipulated thoughts would be gossiped about. Just give them one thing …. “I Don’t Care” thing and everything would just calm down.
A relationship is hampered only when one concludes what they hear about themselves from either the Society or So Called Buddies. Everyone in life has to move on at a point. The best part one can do when they hear such things, just listen and don’t think about all this bullshit. Let it go !
There’s this process in everyone’s life. A process where in one person is known by the other person’s name in a small patch of time.
Strangers – Acquaintances – Friends – Close Friends – Best Friends – Special Friend – Relationship !
A few people see this everytime in their lives, like this is a looped process in their lives, for some it’s like it’s on n on n on untill he/she finds the correct person & for the luckiest people in the world, this is a One time process. I have met and known people who are engaged or married to their school time sweet heart’s. This is one “Awww” thing.
All one should do in a relation is, rather then finding the perfect one for you, make the relationship perfect for both. Nurture the relation, love to live happily ever after.
I have a doubt hea if any one can solve it, with a good reason …
Love happens once a Life Time – Myth or Reality ?
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